Echoing what everyone else said, and I'll add that, our culture regarding women, our weight, and food, is so screwed up that "Oh, how could you bring this amazing ~naughty stuff to us" should most likely be translated as WE LOVE THIS, YOU ARE AWESOME.

It's weird. It's something I had to train myself out of doing, and I still catch myself about to go there sometimes. We just pick it up by cultural osmosis, I guess.